小EDI即將滿月了,父母眼中的她一天天地長大,一天比一天可愛,每日的成長與改變都可用肉眼觀察到,也讓我深刻體會到孩子的成長是如此快速,在你不經意、沒留神的時候漸漸茁壯,也警惕自己要用心愛她,珍惜她還依賴妳、陪伴妳的日子。
另外,在外婆的堅持下,怕外孫女變成肉餅臉,從EDI出生後就積極訓練她趴著睡,除了臉形好看之外,睡眠也比較穩定,不容易被嚇到。
所以,她從出生第五天就是趴著睡覺,不到一個月臉型和頭型都改變了,出生時的肉包臉慢慢拉長,雖然兩塊臉頰肉還是圓滾滾的,但至少.....現在從肉包變成銀絲卷了。呵呵呵~~~
Monday, February 25, 2008
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
母曰
當媽後,將手機螢幕、電腦上老公的照片刪除換成女兒;
當媽後,捨不得自己置裝,但購買女兒的東西卻從不眨眼;
當媽後,逛街逛來逛去還是走進嬰兒專賣店;
當媽後,以前最討厭娃娃聲、BABY TALK,但自己卻天天這樣;
當媽後,原來睡懶覺的權利被剝奪,聽見孩子哭聲必須立刻飛奔去;
當媽後,捨不得自己置裝,但購買女兒的東西卻從不眨眼;
當媽後,逛街逛來逛去還是走進嬰兒專賣店;
當媽後,以前最討厭娃娃聲、BABY TALK,但自己卻天天這樣;
當媽後,原來睡懶覺的權利被剝奪,聽見孩子哭聲必須立刻飛奔去;
當媽後,看見女兒打個預防針大哭時,感受比自己生產時還要痛;
當媽後,拒絕咖啡、茶等咖啡因飲品,只能站在咖啡店前「聞香」;
當媽後,拒絕咖啡、茶等咖啡因飲品,只能站在咖啡店前「聞香」;
當媽後,任何入口的食物必須先想到對孩子哺乳有沒有影響;
當媽後,外用的漂亮皮包早已變成裝滿尿布、奶瓶、紙巾的尿布袋;
當媽後,無法拒絕任何兒童相關慈善募款;
當媽後,無法拒絕任何兒童相關慈善募款;
當媽後,最怕看感人的親情倫理片,因為會哭得唏哩嘩啦;
當媽後,開始猛剪報章中的折價券,任何尿布、奶粉優惠絕不錯過;
當媽後,活像名女大力士及八爪章魚,一手抱孩子,另一手還得空出做事;
當媽後,對先生的耐心越來越少,卻對面吵鬧時的女兒面帶微笑;
當媽後,不顧形象在親人面前大露胸部,因為禁不起餓的女兒已在哇哇叫;
當媽後,相機、錄影機永遠STAND-BY ,不想錯過可愛寶貝的一顰一笑;
當媽後,才知道有人在妳胸膛熟睡是多麼幸福的感覺;
當媽後,才知道被人依賴是最甜蜜的負擔;
當媽後,才知道為人父母的辛苦;
當媽後,才知道擁有妳是世上最幸福的事情。
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
FIRST BABY VISIT 相見歡
Thursday, February 14, 2008
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
Friday, February 8, 2008
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
痛嗎?!真的痛!
一直有人問我,生產的過程如何? 我只能說,感謝無痛分娩的發明,否則之前陣痛的過程還真是有夠痛的!
31日上午9點在家吃完早餐後,我們就趕往醫院催生,我先將全身的衣服褪去,換上醫院提供的衣服,然後安靜地躺在病床上,利用點滴的方式,每半小時加重藥效,開始進行催生。
催生的過程大約5至6個小時,在這之前我並沒有任何疼痛的感覺,還可以躺在床上隨意轉動電視遙控器,不時也可以和DAVID及媽媽說話,直到下午4、5點左右,骨盆腔開始感到些許的壓力,然後力量慢慢加強,由緊壓、酸而轉變成痛。
這時候,我的子宮頸僅開3至4公分而已,但痛感有規律且如潮夕來襲般地觸痛我身上每一條神經,痛到連拉梅茲呼吸我都無法FOLLOW,只能靠著無比的毅力,希望這度秒如日的痛楚能夠趕快過去。
由於無痛分娩最好在子宮頸開4至6公分施打,加上麻醉師當時也有其它手術要進行,所以我只能單靠一些止痛藥止痛,但仍然無法抵擋疼痛。
老實說,超怕針的我很畏懼無痛分娩的過程,但麻醉醫師安慰我說,打針的過程雖然會痛,但這點痛與陣痛比起來根本不算什麼。
下午6時左右施打了無痛分娩,下半身立即呈現幾近麻醉的狀態,只會感到有壓力,即便陣痛也不會有太大的感覺,我輕鬆度過了幾個小時,等待醫生再次CHECK時,我的子宮頸意外地已經開到9公分,一小時後就要開始PUSH。
晚間9時左右,護士要我試著PUSH看看,細心的她叫我不要緊張,冥想將力量集中在下半部,然後用力的往外推,她說初產婦一般需要2至3小時的時間。
當時,我一心只想趕快撐過去,不願再經過數小時陣痛後,最後還得被送上手術台挨一刀,所以用盡身體的力量及想像力,努力、用力推,一個小時左右,我終於產下BABY,速度之快,讓醫生和護士都很驚奇。
沒有見到EDI前,我先聽到她宏亮的哭聲,然後不禁留下感動的眼淚,當醫生將她抱給我看時,我看見她張眼對我微笑,原來這就是我在肚子懷胎十月、朝夕相處的小孩啊! 之前所受的痛苦早已煙消雲散,我只知道我是天下最幸福的母親。
爸爸給妳的一封信
Dear Daughter,
When Dad first saw you as a tiny pulse on the ultrasound monitor in Dr. Kee Seng Koh's clinic, I was filled with blissful joy and excitement. Though I do not yet know what you will be called, I know you simply as my Beloved.
When Mom and I learned about your gender from Dr. Joseph Li, we thought about names that would be appropriate for you. We want names that symbolize beauty and strength, intelligent and compassionate.
Edith is an Old English word that combines "ead" meaning "rich, blessed" and "gyth" meaning "warrior, fighter." Dad got the idea of this name from the famous Pulitzer Prize-winning American author Edith Wharton. This name represents my hope that you would grow up to be a happy, blessed child, who will carry a strong fighting spirit under any circumstance.
Seraphine is a French name from the Latin word Seraphim, the name of the highest order of angels, with six beautiful wings, who stand around God's throne, singing praise. I wish you become a person with shiny inner beauty, who is not afraid to be generous and compassionate toward others.
Chang is Dad's Chinese family name. I was born and raised in Taiwan, and later immigrated with my family to the U.S. at the age of 11. Yang is Mom's Chinese family name. She was born, raised and educated in Taiwan, who later met Dad in Houston, Texas, where we wed on April 18, 2004.
We have been waiting for your arrival for quite sometimes, Edi. You are our child. You are Edith Seraphine Chang.
Dad
When Dad first saw you as a tiny pulse on the ultrasound monitor in Dr. Kee Seng Koh's clinic, I was filled with blissful joy and excitement. Though I do not yet know what you will be called, I know you simply as my Beloved.
When Mom and I learned about your gender from Dr. Joseph Li, we thought about names that would be appropriate for you. We want names that symbolize beauty and strength, intelligent and compassionate.
Edith is an Old English word that combines "ead" meaning "rich, blessed" and "gyth" meaning "warrior, fighter." Dad got the idea of this name from the famous Pulitzer Prize-winning American author Edith Wharton. This name represents my hope that you would grow up to be a happy, blessed child, who will carry a strong fighting spirit under any circumstance.
Seraphine is a French name from the Latin word Seraphim, the name of the highest order of angels, with six beautiful wings, who stand around God's throne, singing praise. I wish you become a person with shiny inner beauty, who is not afraid to be generous and compassionate toward others.
Chang is Dad's Chinese family name. I was born and raised in Taiwan, and later immigrated with my family to the U.S. at the age of 11. Yang is Mom's Chinese family name. She was born, raised and educated in Taiwan, who later met Dad in Houston, Texas, where we wed on April 18, 2004.
We have been waiting for your arrival for quite sometimes, Edi. You are our child. You are Edith Seraphine Chang.
Dad
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)